Scientists discovered that having more sex won't make you happier, but that's not the most surprising part
In the first
study of its kind, a team of scientists at Carnegie Mellon University has
upended the common notion that having more sex will make you happier.
More
surprising is that more sex might even generate unhappiness, George
Leowenstein, a professor of economics and psychology at Carnegie Mellon, and
his colleagues report in their recent paper.
Several
studies over the last decade have found evidence to suggest that sex is
directly linked with happiness, so that more sex means greater happiness. One
study even found that changing the amount of sex you had from once a month to
once a week would give you the same amount of happiness as receiving an extra $50,000.
However,
what these studies missed and what's causing some misconceptions about sexual
frequency and joy, Leowenstein recently told The New York Times, was to
determine which element — sex or happiness — was the cause and which was the
effect. Not only that, other factors besides sex, such as income, location, or
age, could be better gauges of what makes us happy.
"Although
it seems plausible that sex could have beneficial effects on happiness, it is
equally plausible that happiness affects sex," the team wrote in their
paper. " ... or that some third variable, such as health, affects
both."
To help
settle this riddle, the team carefully designed an experiment that would
clearly determine, once and for all, if more sex causes greater happiness.
A straightforward
experiment to solve a confusing riddle
The
experiment was straightforward: Measure how happy couples were with their
current sex schedules. Then, split them into two groups and ask one group to
have more sex (twice as much, to be exact) and ask the other group to change
nothing about their sex live. Finally, compare their how happy they were
afterward. (As part of the experiment, for example, couples having sex three
times a week had sex six times a week; those having sex once a month had it
twice a month.)
A total of
64 adult couples volunteered. Each pair was legally married and heterosexual,
and all volunteers were between the ages of 35 and 65.
The team
asked half of the couples to double the amount of sex they were having while
the other half of couples kept their normal sex schedule.
Throughout
the duration of the experiment, which lasted 90 days, both sets of couples
completed the same online questionnaire at the end of each day. This
questionnaire helped the researchers measure each couple's mood as well as how
satisfied they were with each sexual episode — the quality of the sex.
What they
found surprised them:
"Contrary
to what one would expect if the causal story running from sexual frequency to
happiness were true," the team wrote in their paper, "we observed a
weak negative impact of inducing people to have more sex on mood."
In general,
the researchers found that the couples who doubled the amount of sex didn't
enjoy the sex as much and were less happy overall. Although the team can only
speculate as to why this was, they did answer their question: More sex does not
make us happier.
Moreover,
the researchers stipulate that by being forced to have more sex, the selected
couples actually developed, over time, less motivation to have sex. That, in
turn, is what might have led to an overall downturn in the quality of their sex
as well as their overall mood.
What you
want to take away from this, Leowenstein told The Times, is that when it comes
to sex, concentrate on quality and not quantity if you want to be happy.
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Obviously, I really do believe that amount sex pending on ones sexual schedule is inversely proportional to ones happiness and directly proportional to the amount of boredom on gets.
ReplyDeleteRemembering that extremes are dangerous as nothing is bad except when in excess.
okay.. maybe there is sense in this . If i have sex 3 times a day and I am aske to make it 6, it may not bring double the happiness I have while sticking to 3 times a day
ReplyDeleteThe most potent of all these is Love!
ReplyDeleteWhen you love the way you live your life no matter how small or big it might look, then I think you should be happy.
Then doubling those things should in turn double your happiness.
For the act of Sex! I can say find the way that pleases you the most!
We are unique in our own ways, Happiness is an attribute of the state of Mind not the Flesh!!!